37: Setting Up Summer with Your Teen for Success That Lasts All Year Long

Hey parents, summer can easily turn into endless screen time and chaos — but what if it became your biggest opportunity to build your teen’s confidence, independence, and real-life skills that stick all year?

In this episode:

• Redefine what summer success really means for your teen and your family

• Build a flexible framework with non-negotiable pillars, not strict rules

• Give your teen ownership over their time and goals (imperfect is okay!)

• Prioritize quality time to strengthen your relationship and their confidence

Special Shoutout:

Big thanks to my friend, Erin Stutland, for inspiring my mantra: "Movement in our bodies creates movement in our minds." The science behind this is powerful, and Erin's work has made a huge impact on my approach to wellness and personal growth. You can connect with her on Instagram at @ErinStutland or visit her website www.erinstutland.com.

Exciting News:

If this episode resonates with you, don’t miss out on my Finish the School Year Strong Workshop Replays—available through Friday! Plus, THRIVE Monthly Membership doors are closing on Memorial Day as I redesign the program to make it even better. So grab your spot now for just $97/month before the change happens! THRIVE gives you the tools and coaching to strengthen your relationship with your teen and tackle the parenting challenges with confidence.

For all the details, check out the link in the show notes!

THRIVE Membership → https://www.theteenageguide.com/thrive-membership
Finish the School Year Strong Class → https://www.theteenageguide.com/strong-confident-connected-class-replay-1

✨ Ashley

Time Codes:

01:41 - Start Thinking About Summer Now
02:33 - Set Up Summer to Win All Year
03:02 - Redefine Summer Success Together
04:30 - Structure with Space to Breathe
05:48 - Let Curiosity Lead
06:10 - Responsibility Builds Real Confidence
07:10 - Move the Body, Shift the Mind
08:10 - Nature and Connection Are Non-Negotiable
08:55 - Stretch Their Skills, Grow Their Confidence
09:55 - Consistency Over Perfection
10:41 - Let Them Own Their Time
11:29 - Support, Don’t Micromanage
13:06 - Prioritize Quality Time Over Productivity
14:20 - Use the Off Time to Build Connection
14:50 - End with Reflection, Start with Momentum
16:01 - Ease Builds Influence

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