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The Teenage Guide

The Teenage Guide

Hosted by: Ashley Chandler

You're doing more and getting less — managing harder, reminding louder, trying every approach you know. And somewhere underneath the exhaustion is a version of you who feels more connected to your teen, not more...

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66: [Quick Win] How to Get Your Teen to Listen and Do What They Need to Do — A Real Plan That Works

EP. 66 (QUICK WIN): How to Get Your Teen to Listen to You — A Real Plan That Works Look around your space right now. Everything you can see — aside from nature itself — was once an idea in someone's mind. The chair....
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65: What Are You Believing? Real client stories — and the one shift behind every real breakthrough

EP. 65: What Are You Believing to Be True? Real client stories — and the one shift behind every real breakthrough Most of the time, when parents come to me, they want to fix something specific...about their teen. The...
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64: The October 'Slump' is Coming: What You Need to Have on Your Radar

Episode 64: The October Slump — What Every Teacher Knows (and Most Parents Don't) There's a pattern every teacher sees every single October — and most parents don't catch it until it's already a full-blown battle or...
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63: Three Practices That Give You (& Your Teen) Your Time and Energy Back

EP. 63: Three Practices That Give You (& Your Teen) Your Time and Energy Back We talk a lot about relationships and skills — the two things that can help you solve almost any challenge with your teen. But...
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62: Who Are You Parenting With? — How to Build Your Dream Village

EP. 62: Who Are You Parenting With? How to Build Your Dream Village Somewhere along the way, our parenting village starts to disappear. When our kids are little, there are playgroups, preschool pickup, birthday...
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61: Why You Lose Them in the First 5 Seconds of 'Helping'

EP. 61: Why You Lose Them in the First Five Seconds of "Helping" You love them. You can see the solution. And somehow — the moment you open your mouth to help — you've already lost them. This is the moment almost...
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60: Back to School With Teens: Connection, Confidence, & Motivation Starts Here

Back-to-School Stress With Teens: What to Focus on Instead of Grades Back-to-school season has a way of bringing everything to the surface. The schedules. The lunches. The homework. The missing assignments. The...
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59: Real Parents, Real Teens, & The Formula That Changes Everything

EP. 59: Real Parents, Real Teens, & The Formula That Changes Everything What actually changes when you stop trying to fix the behavior you can see…and start paying attention to what’s happening underneath it? In...
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58: 5 Parenting Myths That Are Making Your Teen's Behavior Worse

5 Parenting Myths That Are Making Teen Behavior Worse (Without You Realizing It) What if the strategies you've been been told will fix your teen are actually keeping your family stuck? If it's late at night, sound...
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57: [For Parents & Teens] When You Know This - You're Unstoppable

EP. 57: When You Know This — You're Unstoppable Some episodes are about strategy. Some are about skill. This one is about something deeper. In this episode, Ashley shares one of the most profound moments of her life —...
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56: Why Your Teen Won't Tell You What's Really Going On (And How to Change That)

56: Why Your Teen Won't Tell You What's Really Going On (And How to Change That) Your teen's social world is one of the most powerful influences on their emotional well-being, identity, and decision-making. Yet it's...
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55: It's Not Therapy, but it Feels Therapeutic [What I Do & Why it Works]

EP. 55: It's Not Therapy, But It Feels Therapeutic — What I Do and Why It Works If you've ever wondered whether what I do is therapy, whether I can help with your family dynamic, school, or friendships — this episode...
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